Forgivness For All...

 Here we are again, another Friday and guess what it's raining.  I am Thankful for it all though.  Forgivness is a rough subject in some ways for me.  OHHHH I ask for forgivness daily, but I have to also forgive others and this is where it gets difficult for me.  Without Forgivness in your life God will only see a Hardened Heart and he won't have that.  There is one particular person in my life that I need to forgive, that would be my ex wife.  I don't use the word hate lightly when it come to an individual, but unfortunantely I hated her for what she did to me.  No pitty party here and I'm not going to get specific either, but just trust me she had earned that hatred or at least I thought so.  Spoiler alert, I once again am wrong in thinking that.  Jesus showed me a better way.  God's Grace has now shown me the error in my ways and thoughts.  When I take a step back and look at what the Plan has done for me because of my previous relationship and my Incredible, Amazing, Wife Amy and our life together now it has opened my eyes.  Changed my perspective on things.  Without my past I would'nt be the person I am today.  God's Plan is always Perfect and on His schedule.  I have started praying for her salvation and I have told God that I forgive her.  My next step is I need to tell her myself.  That will not be easy, but I have the ability to do so because Jesus has my back.  Forgivness in your life may be similar or entirely different, but you still have to be able to let that hate, anger, frustration go.  Once you start showing others Grace and Forgivness you are breaking those chains with the help of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior.  God will lighten your burden but you have to put in some work as well.  People will say horrible things, treat you badly, words can hurt if you allow them to.  Families will fight and have disagreements as well.  Some of the biggest fights I have witnessed or been part of almost always revolve around family.  Actions speak louder than words.  Show Everyone, especially family, Grace, Love, Patience, and Forgiveness.  You only have a limited time here on Earth, tomorow could be too late.  Have Faith in God and Jesus that they will show you how to Forgive and Love the way Jesus Loves you.  Forgivness For All is necessary to change a person's life in this crazy world, Maybe yours.